By Kate Eubanks
In a recent episode of the podcast Religion Unmuted, sociologist Elaine Howard Ecklund spoke with Reverend Justin Meyers, executive director of the Al-Amana Centre in Oman, about what genuine interfaith engagement can look like in practice. Their conversation highlights how moving beyond tolerance toward deeper hospitality can transform relationships across religious differences. (Listen to the episode here)
Meyers has lived and worked in Oman since 2013, leading an ecumenical Christian organization that facilitates dialogue between Christians, Muslims, and people of other faith traditions. His commitment to interfaith understanding began much earlier. Growing up with Muslim relatives through his Lebanese uncle, Meyers saw firsthand how misunderstandings about Islam intensified after the September 11 attacks.
Oman offers a distinctive setting for this work. The country is the only majority-Ibadi Muslim nation in the world, a tradition historically accustomed to living alongside other Muslim communities. In practice, Omanis often avoid emphasizing sectarian differences and instead focus on shared civic life. According to Meyers, this cultural orientation--combined with the country's long history as a trading hub connecting Africa, Asia, and the Middle East--has fostered habits of coexistence and dialogue.
One of the most important lessons Meyers says he has learned is the value of slowing down. In Oman, relationships come before transactions. Conversations begin with coffee, dates, and personal greetings before any business is discussed. Trust is built over time, and meaningful dialogue requires patience.
Meyers also distinguishes between simple tolerance and true hospitality. Tolerance allows people to coexist; hospitality invites them to understand one another more deeply--even when differences remain. This shift often involves discomfort, humility, and a willingness to receive as well as offer generosity.
For those hoping to cultivate peace in their own communities, Meyers suggests two simple practices: share meals with people from different backgrounds and approach others with curiosity rather than judgement. In a polarized world, he argues, genuine understanding begins not with agreement but with the willingness to listen.
Religion Unmuted is a monthly podcast from the Boniuk Institute and it's Religion and Public Life Center, featuring conversations with leading scholars and practitioners on how religion is lived and how it shapes conflict, cooperation, and the institutions we share. Catch up on past episodes and subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.